Friday, October 17, 2014

Mother....Is that you??



It is the same roller coaster...!!  I thought I would see you here.
Oh, they say, same church, different pew...
Mr. O'Quilts and my mother...
All the questioned doctors say that large blood clots in both lungs is a life threatening situation for anyone.  No doctor wants to take away hope..so they say things like...We judge outcomes by 30 to 60 days, not 5 days.  Or, expect a bumpy road...or he already was quite impaired, so we usually do not expect miracles...but do not lose hope.  
When  doctor looks into the hopeful eyes of a relative, it must be very hard to deliver grim statistics and watch the eyes downcast.
And then there was my mother who almost died 4 times before she fell out of her wheelchair and broke her neck.  Remember when the doc gave her three days and I called in the family only to be told by my mother that she took the wrong train...??  She enjoyed another 2 years.
I remember that I am not in charge in this life..
Hope vs. realism???  Are they counterproductive...probably not.
I feel shaky.  It is hard to grasp the details...Adrenaline keeps me going now....doing what has to be done.
Meeting the Hospice nurse tomorrow at 10 am.
Every cell in my body is on alert.
My Dear Heart...

8 comments:

smazoochie said...

I'm so grateful for the news, such that it is. I continue to keep you close to me.

Karen at Birdsong Cabin said...

I'm thinking of you and your family. HUGS AND MORE HUGS to you!!!!

Patsy said...

I have been reading your blog for many months, partly as a quilter and partly as a fellow human being who has felt so touched by how you write of your beloved husband and this awful struggle you are in. My heart goes out to you and you are both in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you and your family.

Rachaeldaisy said...

A thousand hugs to you all!

Holee said...

Brave Heart, as you march into battle knowing the soldier next to you might not be there tomorrow..but hope is life. Many hugs for you this morning.

Bridget said...

Sending some beauty and caring thoughts your way. Answers will come, but who knows when?

Alcea Rosea 31 said...

I hope the hospice nurse is able to help you both. Hugs coming your way.

Barb said...

hospice is a blessing -
sending good wish to you and all of your family