`This Life of Mine

Thiought I would post to cheer the day.

Below Aoife and her cousin in Ireland at Christmas.

They are learning to get along.

Dublin airport at New Years...Aoife hugging Santa!!

Christine showing us her latest quilt.

I had such a lovely dinner last night with friends, that I was  motivated to finish a few of my things just sitting around.

I think the "love" applique is a good touch.  I found more online at Walmart.

Below, a potholder gift for a friend:

My sister is destashing....she is preparing her home for a hospital bed for her daughter

Hospice is involved.  We are all so sad.

I asked her for one cup of her Christmas china before she sells it..

Lovely  memories.

Sometimes a quilter just has to make a potholder...not done, but therapeutic

So here it is...my latest.:...My awful hip pain keeps me from going to dinner, to the art studio, from leaving the apartment.

No pain medication helps at all...And so a friend loaned me this...OMG

My poor ego.....I have to talk myself into being grateful it is available to me at no cost.  As I practice on it so I will not kill someone else, I should be able to be less confined and thus less depressed.

I think I will adjust to this better if it is bespeckled with quilting items!!!

Surgeon and doctor will not replace my hip if I do not lose 50 pounds, but I cannot walk..

Jeeze...I offered to sign a waiver, but no dice.  Me thinks the insurance companies now own the hospitals.

Instead I have to take these shots to help me lose weight.  I do not want to but the pain says , "just do it"

Now they are making me give myself the shots....OMG  OMG

Good things today include a visit from my friend Michael...Thank you Michael.for the friendship, the lunch and the visit..xoxo

Visitors came from my bldg....

And all was well until I tried to walk again after my nap and ended up in tears.

Guess what?????  Dinner fixed that....crazy me..

Now, as my dear man said....I will just go sew. xoxo

Happy New Year's Eve

 Blue Rope for $12.49

I thought I  would share my good deal.  Last night I made my third blue rope bowl. I was able to make 3 rope bowls for the above money from one bundle of rope..Pretty good if you ask me.

Above are some little bags from the Irish oil cloth Eithne brought me years back.

The Rip Stop lining will be tacked down with a bit of Elmer's glue stick, then sewn.  The little bags will close with Velcro.

Once again, our family has been shaken by terminal illness.

Out of the blue, as life tends to happen.

As is my custom, sewing and making things to give away calms me.

Ending 2024 with sewing.

Starting tomorrow...2025 with sewing.

Like my man used to say..."Just go Sew!!".

Lucky with in house friends to brunch with today and tomorrow

Lucky with other friends busy with their holiday lives.

Hoping to share friendship and love  in the New Year.

Happy New Year!!

Holiday Season Week 4

 

My oldest grandson, Evan is 19.  He works hard and owns his own tiny house.

As I so miss seeing my son for the past 2 years, I see him in my Evan..The eyes, the voice...the heart.

Therapy for Grandma O'Quilts these past two days as hip pain disables me.

Two rope bowls using my cool and awesome blue rope...This is my meditation and my relaxation.

This has been a very difficult pain day.  I am thinking that doctors do not care about the elderly...We are just extra parts.

But, then, it is midnight and I should know better than to post now..

I did not leave my apartment all day.  With shades drawn, I heard Pearl knocking at my door.

The blue rope bowls helped keep her at bay.

Tomorrow I will try to hobble to lunch.  I so need to see people.

At my age, Christmas is just not like it used to be.  I am missing my past, I am missing my youth.

Tomorrow is my sister's birthday.  Unfortunately she is alone as she watches her daughter get sicker by the day. It breaks my heart that she has such little support.

Hoping now that the morning light will bring me clarity...It usually does.

Holiday Season Week Three

Beautiful tree, beautiful granddaughter!

Linda Swanecamp's stunning hand painted Christmas card!!

This year is the very best.

MP holiday card says all the right things.

My friend Carolyn  gave me this for my birthday .  It is a pocket hug.

NC grands came to visit for my birthday....Oh, yes...a selfie...and love.

Not made quite in time...but maybe next year..

My hip joint pain is so bad now that I can barely walk even with a walker.

Called another doctor in another agency.  I am meeting him next month.  Meantime I have had two shots for weight loss;

Somehow, I had missed that I was quite the substancial woman.  Can you believe that in this clinic, there are two doctors who will not see anyone over 50!!! OMG

First I weigh too  much;  then I am too old;  maybe  next I will have been too political???

Meantime, I am trying to bloom where I am planted and celebrating all the wonderful things that make up my life.

Friends and family...so the best!!

 

A Holiday season : Week Two

Grandma O'Quilts is still potholder crazy.

Tree potholder process below.  I think I will sew a little button on top for a star.

I sew love my electric Accucutter!!!

I could not let these scraps go by.....

Good use for my cat cut outs..,

Today, I got  my first shot for losing weight.  I am still alive...

It has been 12 hours and I have not yet lost any weight and my joint pain still flares.

Friends gathered at lunch for a very fun "shot" support group,.

I am so very lucky!!

I had the medication, the needles and the instructions from the pharmacy.

The mean nurse here insisted that I learn to give myself the shot....No way!!!

She said if I did not learn, she would charge me $27.  I told her that I would pay the money

The nurse got meaner.  She insisted...So today was my first lesson in giving myself a shot....OMG

I am waiting for the awful side effects that google told me about.......waiting....

Tomorrow I just may put away my box of Christmas and Hannukah fabric.

I should do it before I get holiday potholder- making crazy,  out

 of control!!!

It has been rainy and cold here in Charlotte...brrr.

I, however, am snug as a bug by my sewing machine.

xoxo

 

A Holiday Season....Week One

With great excitement I show the cool swag on this tree...Variagated thread and my little star stitch..Perfect!!

Some of my work in the art room display...Accuquilt snowflakes for Christmas and Hannukah!!

Plus little hanging made for me by my girl many years ago.

The little snowmen are memories from yesteryear...When  my son was in fourth grade.  He hunted the acorn hats..Together we sprayed the clothespins and dotted the face with marker...I love them still

My improv tree quilt was chosen for exhibit this year.

Housewarming potholder for a friend who changed apartments.

She loves to embroider so I put this scrap piece together with a snippit of my grandmother's doily.

My talented grandmother lived from 1896 to 1996.

And, in Portland, our four year old Aoife visits the Llama holiday get together...A  yearly event for them.

Her Irish sweater celebrates the season with the Irish word for Christmas.

Mrs O'Quilts is finally getting an attitude adjustment.  It is not just old lady me with pain and grief..

The world is full of it and so is my apartment complex...

Getting a grip for the holidays with my new role as potholder queen.

Found my name here on one of the doors in our main building.

Why, I have no clue....but it kinda makes me smile:).

Continuing my prime goal of :  "Bloom Where You are Planted"

Already first week of December.

xo

 

Just Checking In....

Severe arthritic pain does not suit me....just sayin'

Below the sunflower pens I made...so much easier to find a pen this way and very easy to give one away to a special person.

Holiday potholders...relaxing and easy to make.

More fun to peruse my huge stash of holiday fabric.

When my girl visited last week, she made tortellini soup.

She froze some for my winter comfort.

New picture, just in...Mom and Dad went out to dinner.

The babysitter sent this picture of Aoife and her  dog, Rosie!!

And so it goes.   Just checking in with my blogging friends.

xoxoxox

Happy Holidays

Finding Joy as it Happens

In the mail today came my avocado friend here....from Melissa Quilts

Big thanks Melissa...a great treat on a stressful day. xoxo

My neice who suffers from Ovarian cancer...loves monkeys.

As a calming expression of love, I made monkey napkins for her.

A friend of mine has chosen an angel tree child for Christmas.

The child wants a doll buggy.  My friend asked me to make a quilt for the buggy..

Here it is, made with love.

Backed with one of my favorite bargains:

Tula Pink bunnies!!

My daughter is visiting here from Oregon.  We have had a lovely time.  She is off now to do errands for me.

My hip causes so much pain, I cannot lift it into the car...Jeeze Louize and more!!!

I need a Pfizer Covid shot delivered to me....Sigh, somehow I do not think that is on the delivery options.

Yesterday;s treat was a visit from my sister and my niece and nephew.  With my girl here...it felt so much like family.

I have craved that feeling lately as my grands are teenagers with their own lives...I think that they have forgotten that they still have a grandmother!!!!!My pain causes me to feel sad.

It was so great to see my sick niece and my dedicated sister.

I love them so.

The doctor ordered weight medication is out of stock...OMG. The entire country must need hip replacements!!!!

All I want is a Butterfinger candy bar.to calm my  nerves, sigh....

Doing Something

Keeping my mind calm; I did one of these!! 

I keep a star to be on my small design wall by my machine for a quilting quicky when I have the chance.

Looking to  gifting, I made two more Japanese knot bags....

The one below is made with corduroy scraps gifted to me years ago.

Something new for me here...Cord holders to keep mess down.

Cord Keeper patterns from Apple Green Cottage

The cord wrappers are a new experiment form.  I have put one on my long I-Pad cord by the sewiung machine.

The Green Apple Cottage has the templates ready to copy.

And so goes this Saturday.  The ortho guy told me to walk thru the pain...Big Ouch.  He also sent me to a weight reduction program where they are going to give me a shot in my stomach so I will lose 40 pounds...OMG>  Then I will probably stay in bed and wait for the promised nausea and dizzsiness.  I am supposed to lose 40 pounds in two months..Jeeze Louize..I do not know...New rules say...no low BMI, then no operation...even though 8 years ago I had 4 joint replacements in 12 months with a very similar BMI...now doctor and new rules..

 I am walking around in pain, I get depressed!!  I have been offered a riding cart, but physical therapy says I have to walk...so walk I do!!

 Goals:  losing weight enough for me to get a medical release. ANd so it goes.  I have not heard from my grands in forever. It is OK...I am concentrating on getting better..

Tonight's share is from John Roedel

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I wrote this poem a couple years ago to keep myself from falling off the edge.  I need these words today more than ever.

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oh my troubled lovely,

oh my weeping daisy,

oh my fading candle,

oh my broken beauty,

oh my crumbling stronghold,

stay with us

here on Earth

don’t rapture yourself;

~ we need you - we need you

- we need you - we need you

before you decide to leave,

sit with me here in your unmade self

at the edge of your unmade bed

and listen to me

tell you one last secret

oh my tearful songbird,

if you can find

a way to

survive long

enough

someday you’ll become

the answer to somebody

else’s most desperate prayer

by just being there in

the same room that they are in

~ as they gently fall apart

and in that moment

you won’t need to say anything

you’ll just need drape your hands

over theirs like a Good Friday altar cloth

until they believe in resurrection again

~ that’s why you can’t give up

your life will someday be the rainbow

at the end of someone else’s storm

if you aren’t still here

when they fall off

the bridge

then who will be there to catch them?

I know it’s not quite fair

~ but your life isn’t just yours

it also belongs to that person

who is going to need you

to be alive later

you are part of the community

of unintended angels

who has a sacred calling

of surviving your darkest night

so someday you can be the

sunrise for somebody else who

will need you to prove to them

that daybreak always returns

oh my clouding diamond,

oh my shaking sunflower,

oh my doubting saint,

oh my disappearing moon,

oh my quieting symphony

stay here

with us

on Earth

because if you do

you will save a dozen lives

by first saving your own

it’s the great pyramid scheme

of hope

you must persist

so they can watch how you persist

turn this riptide you

are drowning under

into a ripple

of hope

that stretches

through time

that you can ride until

you reach that one moment

in your life where you’ll find yourself

in a quiet room with somebody

who wants to become a shadow

and you’ll be able to say to them

with authority the same thing

I am saying to you right now:

“oh my troubled lovely,

oh my weeping daisy,

oh my fading candle,

oh my broken beauty,

oh my crumbling stronghold

stay with us

here on Earth

don’t rapture yourself

we need you...”

by john roedel