Monday, August 14, 2023

A Scrappy Week Ahead

Friends and family all busy with their lives this weekend.  The only travel I could do was in books.   It is marvelous to have a library on site.  I read  two novels  this weekend and puttered and made some scrap potholders.  I am almost out of potholders.  For me, they are like mini-quilts and so  useful and so quick.



Mac Barnes  One of my very favorite quilters.

Spent some time today watching a few of the TED talks on trauma that affect all of us.

Scrap  trunk show and share tomorrow morning.  I do not want to go to bed...but early comes the morning.


Thursday, August 10, 2023

Still on the Upward Path

Mary in Maryland....I cannot find your email....all I can find is Green Wizard...Help !!!  I know I had it...but age is upon me..xoxo

Quilted by Mary Jerz, these quilts are now bound and totally finished...The joy lifts my heart.

Above:  My Meadowland, again....shown on my patio gate.
Blue Blossoms baby quilt, all done.
An outing today with my sister.  After lunch, we went by Lowes to get ceiling insulation for new design walls....I was going to do this myself, but so glad reason prevailed...I had never seen this product in blue before.  And, workers insisted they were not allowed to cut it...Dear me...My sister carried it in the apartment for me,  Now waiting for help to cover it in batting.  Hanging design walls all over my home!!!

Monday I am going to present a small blurb on scrap quilting to my group here, with a little trunk show.
Will be getting that together this weekend.
I have a huge collection of fabric spanning the  years.  Never did I dream I might run out of energy!!!
Thank goodness for Mary Jerz, as my arthritis is getting in the way of quilting
Now I have a number of quilts on hand to give away when I find people in need.


Tuesday, August 8, 2023

As Body Heals, Mind Heals too....so Grateful

Above is my rendition of "Meadowland", a pattern by Megan Buchanan. I started it 5 years ago and finished it tonight.  I am ashamed at the tacky binding, but delighted at the finish.  Mary Jerz quilted it for me.  I think I can use it as a fall quilt.
 I have been quilting since 1970...I self-taught by reading the initial, "Foxfire" book.  That is a long time to be quilting.  Tonight, I made an awful binding.  Tonight I cut my finger with the scissors.  Tonight I finished it anyway.  I need a label.  In all these years I have found that fabric pens fade.  I am not about to do embroidery. and I am not computer savvy....Any other  suggestions/??

In my new apartment complex, name tags for new folks  have a heart on them.  My one year anniversary date is August 17, but I could not wait.  A week early I removed the heart and added a bit of quilt love.
Thanks to my brilliant friend Sherry, it was decided that I decoupage some small images  on the plastic name plate.  WOW!!! I so love it.  Surely saved me money and DONE is a brilliant word.

Above is the beige rope bowl.  So much nicer than the pink one of  yesterday .
Finished this potholder for a friend.  Amazing what a difference quilting can  make.
Today, feeling so well, I had several visitors....Sherry, and Betty and a visit to Quilt Patch Fabrics.  I had not been there for 10 years...a big change.  Betty and I looked around, met friends and  enjoyed each other.   Dinner tonight with friends as I met a new one...a 2.5 hour dinner.
There is peace in my heart. Tomorrow I will go to the widow group luncheon and meet a new friend  here for dinner....Amazing...and just a few weeks ago...Pearl's cousin was banging on my door.  Neurosis told me I might never get better.   One more week and I might be able to go back to the pool.
The quilt I bound tonight is the largest of about 13 that need bindings  So thrilled to have it done.  In the next few days, I will try to find some folks to hold it for a decent picture.

I am telling myself to go to everything I am invited to.  It is so not healthy to stay in my apartment and wallow. Feeling alive again...I love my blog followers....they are all so supportive. Thank you xoxo

PS My wonderful new cousin has Covid...Will we ever ever be rid of it.???

 

Sunday, August 6, 2023

Hot and Rainy Sunday

Posting a bit tonight to carry on....Made this rope bowl.  Too lazy to change the thread so the pink thread makes the bowl look pink .  I am not crazy about it, but maybe someone will like it for the holidays.
side view
bottom view
While on zoom tonight, I chose the fabric for this unfinished potholder top.
Also trimmed the batting from a quilted top ready for the binding.  Great use of time.
Thanks to the long arm  expertise of Mary Jerz, I now have all these quilts to bind, plus more.

There was more patio reading today.  Finishing the second book this week.
Fun things are scheduled ahead, trying to focus on self and not on what is left of my sad family issues...I am getting better every day and am grateful xo

Hello Monday....Hello friends and more sewing.







 

Saturday, August 5, 2023

A Day Out to Save my Soul

 Big thank you to my sister who picked me up today and joined me at a Mexican food restaurant.  Getting out after my recovery made a new person out of me.  Once home, I headed right to my sewing.

The above potholders are for the two very helpful nurses who work here.
Putting them in my holiday stash.
The above dress is from an online store, H and M. 
Amazing how patchwork  is once again everywhere...
My girl got it for  her girl for their vacation..My girl is so all about sewing!!

This is the book I am reading now....way too hot thought in Charlotte to sit outside and read.
Once again, learning so much,  I so did not  know about this:

And, my energy was so  high, I communicated with three friends I have not seen in forever.
Lucky me!!  I feel great.








Thursday, August 3, 2023

A Glorious Day

I am better!! Whew...looks like I will live after all...Day two of no dizziness as the BP meds have finally started to work...Grateful!
I have put on my door a big Thank you!! : And some of the cards and flowers I received.
So relieved.

Aoife makes a friend and so does  her mother. Preschool friends, and her friend's  mother and grandparents are QUILTERS!!!!!   A win win win.....

 Today, I finished reading ,  The Paris Bookseller. I had not realized it was a historical novel.  I learned so much.  My Irish husband was big on reading James Joyce.  I found him often under a tree in the yard pouring over, Ulysses.  I had to look twice to be sure early 1900's were not 2023 as this book was banned for years because of sexual explicitness.... Finishing the book, I headed out, for the first time in a month, for the grocery store.  Out of jail for Mrs. O'Quilts.

 Paris all over me, I bought Brie and a French baquette for dinner...a bit of red wine completed it....Joy.  I am better!!  Dylan and I had looked forward to a visit today, but transportation was an issue...so hoping next week will bring the visit.

A small, but happy post.

Monday, July 31, 2023

As the Day Goes.......

Amanda Gorman, our poet laureate, depicted on fabric:

Just finished Sally's birthday present.  Fun fabric from Spoonflower.  A bag she will love with a shiny penny inside for good luck. It is late, but still, I finished it.....so glad.  Sally is part of my support system  here.  I  used this tute: Small String Bag

More family drama...but, I  have to save myself.  My well is empty and dry. I will not have a misguided sense of responsibility.  I am better. I got a text from someone named Debbie Downer....hmmm..I did not answer it as I know in my heart, she is Pearl's first cousin.  Deleted!!


My daughter in Oregon found a mother and child hiking/camping group on Facebook.
There was a slot free, so she took it.  Aoife and Em went to the  mountains for the weekend with their tent and had a great time with new friends.  OMG, that girl of mine is raising that girl of hers.!!


 

Thursday, July 27, 2023

Mrs. O'Scraps and Her Horrible, No Good Great Day

My new cousin, Mary Lou sent me this picture of a butterfly on a butterfly bush from  her garden.
Amazing how it brightened my day.  xoxox ML
Here I was last night, in a better mood...playing with scraps for a potholder

Spoonflower just had a 50% off fat quarter sale.
These two fabrics just  made my day better.
Life's strange twists....My mother's neurologist loved and loved the potholders I gave her.  I promised her more.  That was 9 years ago just before my mother died.  OMG..Yesterday I met a new friend who lives here. She was going to the same doctor.  I sent the potholders with her to the doctor.
NINE years later, she knew exactly who they were from...So nice.  She called me tonight to say thanks and catch up...Lovely.
Continuing my day, a visit at our consignment shop..I nabbed this basket for 6$
A thrill as I love baskets.

Dinner tonight with friends  here...and the mood hit...Must find out who Pearl's sister is.
I  am so  looking for my people here...I told a friend to clarify her statements about the negative comments  yesterday.  She did not know what I was talking about!!!!!
How in the world could I have such unrealistic expectations of friends.????

We do remember that  unrealistic expectations bring about resentments...and Bingo. I was there.
I am not the only one who has suffered major losses in life...
I do think that week 3 of this  post operation recovery business has distorted my mind.

I am reminded of the saying, "If  you are  up in your head, you are in a very bad neighborhood!!"

Lucky  me has a brand new chance tomorrow..









Tuesday, July 25, 2023

Holding on by a String, or Two

Our Aoife turned 3 on July 22nd...Here she is in  her bed with her new birthday friends.  Big teddy from Ireland and foxes, made by her ma!!
Aoife's favorite present, a rubber camera that actually takes pictures.
Her birthday dress:  Liberty of London, made by her mother.
YUP, this is the very same daughter of mine who, on leaving for college, exclaimed that she never wanted to see a sewing machine again..!!!  Ha!  Two weeks later, she called me for a sewing machine to make pillows for her apartment.  Now my Emily, is quite an accomplished dressmaker and quilter...a mother's pride!!!
Carrying on through this crazy recovery process with potholders...OMG
I have spent a lifetime with people, listening to their sadness, etc.  As I struggle for friendships here, I find that people only want my friendship if I am upbeat and fun to be around.  Every stressor brings back all the other grief. So, my guess is that I am hard to be around for some.  It is so disappointing.  
ALS stole my man, leaving a hole forever empty.
Veggie haul from my girl's garden plot.
A joyful sight.

Bed here, waiting for the morning light.
Thank God, Pearl  is dead.  Surely hope  her sister does not show  up.


Saturday, July 22, 2023

How Can This Be???

 Lucky me had a visitor on Thursday.  Thirteen year old Dylan came to help his grandmother.  He made bobbins, watered the garden, lifted things, emptied garbage...so wonderful.  We visited, went down  to lunch and enjoyed each others company.  He was here 5 great hours.

Doctor's orders for me not to go in the pool, but Dylan did..performing legs up the entire time.

                         After Dylan left, I went down to dinner with friends...So happy I am better.

Until I am not.

Yup, I overdid it and have spent the past two  days in bed or lounging around, lightheaded and fatigued...OMG, How can this be????  Extrovert here, hates to hang out alone.  No choice now.

Meantime, in Portland, Oregon, our Aoife turns 3. Today is her birthday.  Her family is taking her camping to celebrate and getting her her requested donuts. Picture below was found on Instagram from her pre-school.


In between resting, I found these old blocks.  They are so awful, I do not want to work on them....On the other hand,  I could probably make  the quilt attractive enough for the holiday giveaway in West Virginia.  Margaret said that they ran out of quilts last  year.


My useful and well used bowl cozies...right out of the dryer....all fluffy and nice.
Wonder what tomorrow will bring???
It is so hard to "suck it up, buttercup" when I really want to go out and play like all my friends....Oh, well...
Still a spoiled baby!!


Wednesday, July 19, 2023

The Light at the End of the Tunnel

 With great relief, I am reporting that I am better.  Today marks the end of week two post surgery. I woke up with joy!!!  Today I had no pain and only a bit of lightheadedness and fatigue...Today, I sewed for the first time since..... I made a binding and more:  A great day!

In a crazy moment yesterday, I gave an inopportune "lecture" to my neighbor.   Actually I gave two of them...all totally not my business...Dear, dear me.  Above is the apology note I made for him.
Flowers from my friend, Susan...perfect yellow cheer.
Tonight I cut out several bowl cozies with my great electric Accucutter..
I had lunch with friends, took two walks and was oh, so grateful.  I had dinner with other friends...lucky me.

Below is one more picture of our Aoife who turns 3 this Saturday.  Last night she sang the happy birthday song to me.!!!  My daughter believes in using quilts.  This lovely soft one patch, I bought from a guild friend who had died.  Emily took it home and decided it was a perfect picnic quilt...

Thank you all for your support..xo
I was almost afraid to post about this great day.....I do not want to jinx tomorrow.
Did I mention gratitude?? 


Tuesday, July 11, 2023

And, the Other Shoe Drops.....a Journal Entry

Sunday night at 4 am, I called an ambulance to our main trauma center where  I had had my two operations 6 days ago.  I was so dizzy. My daughter had just left that afternoon.  I was wobbly a bit then...but we thought it was due to two robotic surgeries at once with a long anethesia time..Be patient everyone said...you have had a trauma to your body.

Well, more trauma was awaiting.  The ambulance rides were like a rollercoaster...getting me in, getting me out, deciding that that ambulance was the wrong one, so another was called...OMG..Since I was post op just a few days , the ER took me right in..Then the excitement of a big city ER started: car accidents, fights, shootings, fevers...etc...etc...  I waited 12 hours in that ER....an experience to behold....First of all, the nurses had pink hair, body piercing and tatoos....OK...I do not mind.....It was just not what I had expected in the big ER.   Big city culture  shock.  Old lady culture shock. And, to me, all the staff looked 12.

While I waited, tests were run...heart scans, chest CAT for post-op blood clots, bladder scans, 25 million blood pressure checks, blood tests,, OMG....Meantime, my surgical incisions hurt and I was overwhelmed.  The hospital was completely full, ER patients lined the hallways, were put into former storage rooms, where boxes were stored, and the basement....The staffing was perfect, the space was just not there.

All  staff were pleasant, smart and efficient.  My experience was an A plus one.

I was sick.  I arrived at 4 am and at 4 pm, I received a  holding  room...a tiny but room on a floor.` More BP tests, more name and bday giving...more Oxygen.

I did not want my friends and family bothered, so I did not tell them.  Meantime every test..heart and lung, post op incisions...all wonderful...everything wonderful...except for the blood pressure.  I never had a problem with that before....Well evidently post op, it was decided I needed BP meds and either I did not  hear it or did not believe it so I did not take them.. 

 In the morning I sent my doctor a text.  She looked into the hospital system from her computer and the numerous BP squeezes and said my BP was erratic and to take the meds. I then told my family who did not take kindly to this new state of affairs, especially Emily who had just then returned home to Portland Oregon.  Good thing I called her because soon after that, the nurse at my apartment complex decided it was her job to call her.  It was a scare.  I will never keep that kind of secret again.

End of story...or maybe just end of this part of a chapter...I am now stable on BP meds, well hydrated and exhausted.  I came home this afternoon with my sister's help.  Grateful I did not have a stroke or the many other issues that come with a 75 year old under stress having high BP   I feel amazingly well...Again, friends and family stepped up and held my hand and my heart.

At the hospital, it was decided that a 75 year old woman should not drink Diet Coke for breakfast, so I was put on IV fluids for dehydration.  It was kindly suggested that I cut down on foods that affected BP..That would be ALL my favorites....of course.

Once home, I picked up the discharge  papers to discover that, my hospital stay was not considered an admittance, but a two day outpatient holding experience, thus Medicare  and BC/BS may not pay for it....Well I will just wait and see, because I have had every single test in town on every part of my body. The good news is that I am healthy...Oh, wow,  your heart is great, oh, wow, your lungs are great....
Hopefully your pocket book is great too..

This will have been one heck of an experience if not only did I have to ambulance to town, but now pay for it too.....

And so it goes...both shoes dropped to the floor.  But I have survived.....again xo

Sunday, July 9, 2023

Delighting in the Good Stuff

Thank God!! and Thanks to my village......Alive and well here in the Carolinas...trauma behind me.
Thank  you my friends for all your kindness and support.  Seems like Grandma O'Quilts has come sailing through another storm, or two.  So grateful. 

 It was 5 hours under anesthesia with two surgeries finished. Something with the anesthesia kept me in  the hospital overnight...I assume that is what is making me a bit lightheaded now when I get  up. Hard to walk with abdominal cuts...but for sure....all  is good...all is better than good. No more treatment needed said the doctors.  Everything went on time, like clockwork! So happy it is over. At least recovery is not bringing fear with it. !!!  My daughter goes back to the west coast today.  Safe travel..pls God. My sister back to work.  As life goes on.
Oh, to be forty and oh, to be seventy five and alive!!
Here: my Good Vibes quilting group  enjoying quilts and friends at the yearly quilt festival in Sister's, Oregon.

There is nothing I like better than hanging with family and friends,  sewing and chatting...such a comfy feeling.
Emily worked on my Mother's Day gift while she was here, helping me with the surgery ...Voila...so beautiful. I can carry it while using a cane...

Sally's great sense of humor to cheer my  pain away.
Jelly beans
Family treat, my view from the door.
Mary Lou, my new cousin in Washington state shows off her canned cherries...WOW...Am I ever impressed.  She grows potatoes too and flowers........
Honestly, it is an absolute miracle to have two different doctors doing two different robotic surgeries together, all done, in one day...I am amazed.
Since I have the energy to post,  here is more:
Flowers made by my friend Shoshana in Israel..xo
Cards of faith and prayer from my doctor's children.
Prayers and love and cards and flowers...
I am one lucky Grandma O'Quilts